Symptoms mean emotional attachments. This is discussed in depth In a groundbreaking book, “Family Evaluation; the role of the family as an emotional unit that governs individual behaviour and development” by Dr. Murray Bowen. It discusses how most symptoms, illness and disease are …
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Just Do It.
I consulted with a woman who had been struggling for years with relationship issues with her mom and son. She sat across from me, listening, absorbing, and listening some more. I then proposed a plan, how long it would take, how much of an investment it would be for …
How to Recover When a Family Member Makes You Angry
I’m going to start with the end in mind; “Anger is a strategy”. I start with that, because we need to de-emotionalize anger for a moment so we can see things more clearly. When a fish wants food, it swims. Swimming is the strategy. We have emotions and traits about us, that we use day to …