It’s not brain surgery.
It really is just a matter of compressing time.
What do I mean by that? Imagine your partner is going to die in a month.
Okay, that’s the start point.
Now, here’s the opportunity.
Ask yourself, “what would be the exact things I would do if I knew my partner only had one month left?”
Itemize from top priority.
You already essentially know what you’ve been avoiding, putting off, procrastinating on.
You already know what they value and what is meaningful to them.
So honour that.
Now go do those priority action steps, put them in the calender, and watch your energy move toward love and contribution.
Amplifying appreciation IS the name of the game in long term relationships.